Besm Allah alrahman alraheem, alsalam alikom WAWB.
My wife works online most of her time and she open her webcam for her girl friend to see her uncovered and she thinks is nothing wrong with that
I’m not happy with that at all and I think it’s possible for her girl friend to have a man pass by the camera to see my wife uncovered, and I asked my wife to not use the camera at all because I think it’s haram and we can’t guarantee there is no one at her girl friend house.
One time I was traveling far away from home and my wife was online and her camera was open and but I need her permission to view her cam, so I asked her to open her cam for me to see her and she refused and I really wanted to see her and that made me mad and sad, and I said to her I’ll never forgive you if you don’t open your camera and she refused isn’t that haram for her to do?
Please advice me and my wife.
jazak Allahu khayeer
al salam alikom

All praise be to Allah, and may His peace and blessings be on the greatest messenger, Muhammad.
You are right in not allowing your wife to open her camera while she is uncovered (without hijab).
If your wife uncovers her face (does not wear niqab), then she may wear her hijab and use her camera while talking to trustworthy women, non-marriageable men or yourself.
She should obey you and you should treat her kindly.
May Allah put mercy and compassion between you.
Allah knows best.